Contact Lori For Booking

Lori Gottlieb

Revealing the truth of who we are is the glue that binds us together.

Psychotherapist | Bestselling Author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Contact Lori For Booking
Lori Gottlieb | Psychotherapist | Bestselling Author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
Lavin Exclusive Speaker

Stories are the way we make sense of our lives—but we’re not always telling the right ones. Thankfully, Lori Gottlieb—therapist, New York Times bestselling author, and Atlantic columnist—is a masterful guide to editing and rewriting the narratives that keep us stuck. Through her massively popular book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone—now being adapted for television by Eva Longoria—and her viral new TED talk, Gottlieb shows us that vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but a compelling leadership tool; that our external circumstances don’t have to dictate our lives; and that we can consciously create meaning anywhere—at work, at home, and in relationships.

“Rarely have I read a book that challenged me to see myself in an entirely new light, and was at the same time laugh-out-loud funny and utterly absorbing.”

— Katie Couric

Lori Gottlieb started her career as a film and TV executive, crafting stories for cult favorite productions like Friends and ER, followed by a period as a nationally recognized journalist telling the stories of her subjects. Today, she’s a psychotherapist who helps her patients unravel and change the stories that no longer serve them. But what happens when a therapist experiences her own personal crisis? In her brilliant book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, Gottlieb speaks candidly about her experience on both sides of the therapist’s couch, and in the process, guides a much broader conversation on mental health,  vulnerability, fulfillment, and human relationships. Called both “provocative and entertaining” (The Washington Post) and “irresistibly candid and addicting” (The New York Times Book Review), Maybe You Should Talk to Someone spent 15 weeks on The New York Times bestseller list. The memoir was also named Best Nonfiction Book of the year by O, The Oprah Magazine, an Amazon Best Book of 2019, and one of the 100 Must-Read Books of the year by TIME Magazine.


On stage, Gottlieb is deeply relatable, disarmingly funny, and startling profound. She blends her clinical experience with real-world stories, fascinating research, and the latest cultural developments to lift the curtain on the mystery of our own lives. Opening up conversations about our emotional lives in a way that both approachable and inspiring, Gottlieb shifts our perspective and creates powerful change. Her talks guide us to find meaning at work, have difficult—but necessary—conversations, and tap into our feelings as a guide to living the lives we want.


In addition to her clinical practice, Gottlieb is the idiosyncratic voice behind The Atlantic’s weekly “Dear Therapist” advice column and a regular contributor to The New York Times. She has written hundreds of articles related to psychology and culture, many of which have become viral sensations, and is a sought-after expert on media such as The Today Show, Good Morning America, The CBS Early Show, CNN, and NPR’s “Fresh Air.” To date, Gottlieb has shared the stage with numerous emotional health advocates and thought leaders such as Katie Couric, Arianna Huffington, Esther Perel, Geena Davis, Jane Fonda, and Tara Westover. Gottlieb is also TED speaker, a member of the Advisory Council for Bring Change to Mind, and advisor to the Aspen Institute.


Speech Topics

Mental Health
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone How Changing Our Stories Can Change Our Lives

One day, Lori Gottlieb is helping patients at her therapeutic practice in LA—the next, she finds herself in a crisis that lands her on the other side of the therapist’s couch. In her groundbreaking new book Maybe You Should Talk to Somone, Gottlieb opens up about her experience as both professional and patient. She examines the truths and fictions we tell ourselves to live—stories of love, desire, meaning, mortality, guilt, and redemption—and asks what happens when those stories are wrong?


In this illuminating new talk, Gottlieb shows us that it’s not our external circumstances that hold us back, but the way we narrate them that has a powerful effect. When we cling to a faulty narrative, we end up living that life story—and becoming trapped in it, unable to grow or change. Funny, thought-provoking, and above all else, honest, Gottlieb shows us how to rewrite our stories—even those that are deeply held—so that something transformative can happen. When we change the narrative, Gottlieb reminds us, what we are really changing is the quality of our lives.

Feelings Aren't a Bad Word Discovering Emotions as Our Superpower
When it comes to feeling successful and in control of our lives, we tend to think of our feelings as distracting, irrelevant, or even a sign of weakness. But embedded in those beliefs is a profound irony: though we tend to avoid or outright fear our feelings, our feelings are the most powerful tool we have to live a fulfilling life. Even so-called “negative” emotions like anger, anxiety, and envy can be used as a barometer to guide people toward getting what they want. In this riveting, eye-opening talk, esteemed psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb discusses the many ways we tend to bury this superpower, and she shows us not only how to access our feelings—but how to use them as a navigation system for creating happier, more meaningful lives.